Self Help and Sleep
Fix your sleeping space
The ideal bedroom temperature is 18° C (64.4° F) according to Chris Idzikowski of the Edinburgh Sleep Clinic. Above 24° C and your brain won't send the correct signals for sleep. Too cold (below 12° C) and the cold may wake you.
Have both a summer and a winter duvet. A 10 - 13.5 tog winter duvet may be too warm for the summer, a 4.5 tog may be just right.
Try opening a window, even in winter. Fresh air encourages sleep, so long as the room doesn't get too cold or the cold doesn't make you wheezy.
An average person spends 25 years of their life in bed! They also sweat 0.3 litres (half a pint) of liquid during the night and change position about fifty times. The British Sleep Society recommend choosing a good, supportive bed with a firm mattress. Your mattress or futon should be changed every 5 - 10 years or so. Futons tend to get firmer with age and should be turned and aired regularly.
Cotton and linen are best as they absorb more moisture and can help with sweating. Pillows should be changed regularly, some say every six months.
You could sprinkle a tiny amount of lavender oil on your pillow or spray some in the air. Research shows it can improve the quality of sleep. Hops, camomile and peppermint can also help. It's important to talk to your doctor or midwife before using essential oils if you're pregnant, have allergies or breathing problems.
Nightwear should be loose and made of natural fibres. Bed socks can be a good idea, as warm feet signal healthy blood flow to the brain, inducing restful sleep.
Turn it down or preferably off. Anticipating a shrill alarm is stressful and can make insomnia worse. If you're getting enough sleep, you should wake up naturally without an alarm. If you need an alarm clock to wake you up on time, you may need to set an earlier bedtime. As with your bedtime, try to maintain a regular wake-up time, even on weekends.
Curtains or blinds should be nice and thick. Ideally, a bedroom should be totally dark until 4am. Darkness stimulates the pineal gland to produce the hormone melatonin, which induces sleep. Switch off your landing light, too - even low levels of light coming under a door can keep you awake. Special 'blackout' blinds can help if there's a lot of light pollution around.
Some people prefer total quiet and use earplugs or muffs, others prefer some background noise. Some people find a 'white noise' generator can help, especially if they are prone to tinnitus. Smartphone 'apps' are plentiful that can generate background noise, or a radio tuned to FM and slightly off-station can generate a noise some find helpful.
Don't have a computer or TV in the bedroom. Your mind must get the message that the bedroom is a place for rest, so make sure it's as peaceful and restful as possible. Avoid using your bedroom for anything other than sleep and lovemaking. You don't want your bedroom to become a place you associate with work.
To optimise sleep, your room should be tidy, clean and free from clutter. Clutter is a great energy drainer. You know it's there, even though you might try to ignore it, and it takes up room. Clearing clutter makes us feel organised, and feeling organised is good for our peace of mind, which aids restful sleep. Regular vacuuming and damp dusting may seem a chore, but night time asthma and allergies can interrupt sleep. If you get wheezy at night, you may find it helps to remove any carpets from your bedroom, as they are a haven for dust mites.
If your other half is a fidget or a snorer, consider separate beds. People who have poor sleep have higher rates of divorce and separate beds can improve, not hamper a healthy sex life.
This will soothe you and relax your muscles, but avoid showering, which might wake you up.
Alcohol encourages the production of norepinephrine, a neurotransmitter secreted in response to excitement and stress. Hours after drinking, a burst of norepinephrine can disrupt your sleep and is likely to wake you earlier than usual.
An easy technique to stop worrying thoughts is to speak positive thoughts aloud instead. Speaking overrules thinking and will stop negative thoughts.
Try this now - start going through the alphabet in your head. When you reach the letter 'J' start counting out loud. You will find you stop thinking about the alphabet because your speaking overrides your thoughts. Try this technique if you start worrying about something when you're trying to sleep.
Instead of thinking 'the bill is due and I don't have the money', say aloud 'I don't know where it will come from but I'll get creative to find the money and I will find it.' Instead of thinking 'my child is going off the rails' say aloud 'my child is strong willed, which is a great asset and they will succeed in whatever they do'.
Relax, take a bath, read and build in a quiet period before bedtime. A milky drink at night time helps us get off to sleep. Try to get to bed around the same time each day. Don't break the routine on weekends. If you want to change your bedtime, help your body adjust by making the change in small increments, such as 15 minutes earlier or later each day. Record any late TV or radio you don't want to miss, or 'catch up' on the Internet during the evening.
Avoid too much 'catnapping' during the day, although if you do need to make up for a few lost hours, opt for a daytime nap rather than sleeping late.
This strategy allows you to pay off your 'sleep debt' without disturbing your natural sleeping rhythm, which can result in insomnia. While taking a nap can be a great way to recharge, it can make insomnia worse. If insomnia is a problem for you, consider eliminating napping. If you must nap, do it in the early afternoon, and limit it to about thirty minutes.
Avoid tea, alcohol, coffee, chocolate and soft drinks containing caffeine. For some people, a light snack before bed can help promote sleep. When you pair tryptophan-containing foods with carbohydrates, it can help calm the brain and allow you to sleep better.
For some, eating before bed can lead to indigestion and make sleep more difficult. Experiment to find the best foods and time to eat.
If you need a bedtime snack, try:
Relaxation can be beneficial for everyone, especially for those struggling with sleep. Practicing relaxation before bed is a great way to wind down, calm the mind, and prepare for sleep. Some simple relaxation techniques include:
If you can't sleep you may come to dread bedtime, expecting to toss and turn for hours. Bedtime is triggering a negative response; this method teaches you to use the bed only for sleep and for sex.
You're not allowed to read, use your laptop or tablet, watch television, text or speak on the phone.
Go to bed when you're tired, and if you're not asleep after 20 minutes, get up and do something else such as listen to relaxing music or breathing and muscle relaxing exercises.
Bear in mind not to sit where there are bright lights. When you feel sleepy again, return to bed. The idea is to build a strong association between bed and sleep. Eventually you'll be able to fall asleep soon after getting into bed and not dread bedtime.
Smokers find it more difficult to sleep and wake up more often in the night.
Regular, moderate exercise such as swimming or walking can help relieve the day's stresses and strains - but not too close to bedtime or it may keep you awake. Exposure to natural daylight helps too, so out-of-doors activity is a good idea.
Melatonin is a naturally occurring hormone controlled by light exposure that helps regulate your sleep cycle. Melatonin production is controlled by light exposure. The brain secretes more in the evening, in the dark, which makes you sleepy, and less during the day when it's light and you need to stay alert. However, modern life can disrupt your body's natural production of melatonin and with it, your sleep cycle.
Spending a long time in an office away from natural light can impact your daytime wakefulness and make your brain sleepy. Bright lights at night from the TV or computer can suppress the body's production of melatonin and make it harder to sleep. However, there are ways you can boost your body's production of melatonin, and keep your brain on schedule.
Many people use the television to fall asleep or relax at the end of the day, and this is a mistake. Not only does the light suppress melatonin production, but television can stimulate the mind, rather than relaxing it. Try listening to music or audio books instead, or practicing relaxation exercises. If your favourite TV show is on late at night, record it for viewing earlier in the day.
Avoid bright lights before bed; use low-wattage bulbs instead. Red bulbs are less disturbing than white or blue lights.
The sleep cycle contains five distinct phases, divided into four stages of non-REM (rapid eye movement) sleep, followed by a stage of REM sleep (in which we dream).
Each of these cycles takes about 90 minutes, followed by a brief time when we are relatively wakeful, before a new cycle starts again. This process is repeated about four or five times a night.
In other words, if we were to sleep completely naturally, with no alarm clocks or other sleep disturbances, we would wake up, on average, after a multiple of 90 minutes.
This means that you will feel most refreshed if you wake up at the end of a 90-minute sleep cycle, because you will be closest to your normal waking state.
To increase the chances of this happening, work out when you want to wake up, then count back in 90-minute blocks to find a time near to when you want to go to sleep.
Imagine you want to wake at 8am and wish to go to sleep around midnight.
Counting back in 90-minute segments from 8am would look like this:
You should aim to fall asleep around either 11pm or 12.30am in order to feel especially refreshed in the morning.
So, if you need to wake up at 7 a.m., you can either go to sleep at 9 p.m. (if you need more sleep) or at 10:30 p.m.
Once awake, the key to getting back to sleep is continuing to cue your body for sleep, so remain in bed in a relaxed position. Try not to stress over being awake or your inability to fall asleep again, because stress and anxiety encourages your body to stay awake. A good way to stay out of your head is to focus on physical sensations in your body. If you're wide awake and can't stop thinking, it's probably better to get up.
If you find it hard to get back to sleep, try a relaxation technique such as visualization, deep breathing, or meditation, which can be done without getting out of bed. Remind yourself that although they're not a replacement for sleep, rest and relaxation will still help rejuvenate your body.
If you use a portable electronic device to read, choose one that is not backlit, or turn its light off, use another light source such as a bedside lamp instead.
The darker it is, the better you'll sleep. Cover electrical displays, use heavy curtains or shades to block light from windows, or try a sleep mask to cover your eyes.
If you wake up during the night to use the bathroom - as long as it's safe to do so - keep the light to a minimum so it will be easier to go back to sleep.
On waking in the night
We tend to think of a good night's sleep as seven or eight hours of unbroken sleep, waking up refreshed and ready for action. However there's a school of thought that suggests it can be perfectly natural to sleep for a few hours, wake for an hour or two, then return to sleep. Historian and anthropologist Roger Ekirch, in his book 'At Day's Close: Night In Times Past', writes about 'segmented sleep' – a first sleep of about two hours after dusk, followed by a wakeful period and then a second sleep till dawn.
This pattern of sleep was common before industrial society. While awake, we would get up, use the toilet, visit neighbours, read, pray or make love. Ekirch and other researchers find this may well be our natural sleep pattern, one we have lost since the advent of electric lighting and industrialisation of society.
In any event this period of wakefulness can be a healthy, pleasant, creative and productive time if we can enjoy it, rather than simply spend it fretting in bed.
If you can't sleep, you might want to try getting up and doing a few simple jobs, then return to bed when you're sleepy. Don't worry about not sleeping.
There are many good books and websites that can help. Your GP, practice nurse or primary care mental health practitioner will be able to recommend from a range of helpful material.
If you've tried the tips above and are still struggling with sleep, you might want to consult with a professional. Consider scheduling a visit with a sleep doctor if, despite your best efforts at self-help, you're troubled by any of the following symptoms:
The sooner you sleep well, the sooner you'll feel better! If you've been affected by anything you've read here, or if you've tried all the advice here but still can't sleep, contact your GP or a health professional for extra information or to get on the road to recovery today.
You can find a list of national agencies that can help with sleep here: National Sleep Agencies
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